Actress, Lydia Forson has expressed sadness over one sided relationships
between men and women in Africa. The onetime AMAA best actress is not happy how
men are favored above women, and questions why women swallow the negative side
of every relationship. she took to social media to bare her mind on the demarcation existing between the lives of men and women in Africa.
"A man can have a standard for the women he wants to marry,
but a woman should "settle" for whoever and shouldn't be as picky
because her options can be limited. ---- Issa Thread.
"Men are allowed to take their time to select their idea of a
"wife material".Beautiful, can cook and clean,hopefully a virgin(if
not,just slightly used); she shouldn't have any children, must fear God and
most importantly must be publicly perceived as "decent".
"A woman on the other hand shouldn't care about how many
women a man has been with, how many children he has, his past, how much money
he has NOW, his looks and the list of things men are allowed to consider before
picking a husband.
"Women are supposed to "settle" while men are
allowed to take their sweet time, have a kid out of wedlock ( because he wants
to), play the field with as many women as he wants, when finally he FEELS like
it; go through his catalog and pick one to be his wife.
"You know how you're rushing to cook and end up putting sugar
instead of salt in your meal?That's how it is for a lot of women who're
pressured into marriage.Sadly you'll still be blamed for not taking time to
read the label,it's your FAULT for not making the right choice.
"Every man & woman deserves to be happy in a
relationship, if that's what they want. Just allow them to find that happiness
on their own terms and time. Stop ruining people's happily ever afters with
standards even you can't live up to. The END." She wrote.
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