Nollywood actor Benson Okonkwo recently made a shocking revelation to Julia Blaise Blog (JBB) about his growing up days. According to him, he had a very ugly experience that has refused to leave him till date. According to him, at age 10 he was molested by a 35-year-old lady who was their neighbor.
 
“People feel that things are always rosy for actors, and they feel that it is all about glamour but the truth is that we have all had our ugly experiences. I have gone through a lot in life and that is what made me the Benson Okonkowo that many love and respect today in the industry.

“I was sexually abused at the tender age of 10 by my 35 years neighbor called Aunty Amaka. A lady who I loved and respected so much. She took advantage of me on that fateful afternoon after luring me with sweets and biscuits. She stole my innocence and ever since I have been haunted by that hurtful memory, that is why I put passion into my acting job because its takes away my pain.

What attitude does he have towards women since then, he was asked?
I don’t hate women. I love ladies, but the truth is that with this bitter and painful experience it is only natural to be careful while dealing with women, but I love them.

When asked if he ever told his parents, he stated: “I kept it away from my parents but I told our gate man, who did not tell my parents too. I grew up with the shock and it still disturbs me till today.”


He equally talked about the love he has for his fans, for being supportive all this years, praying, rooting and voting for him, that he loves them so much. He also said they should still keep the good work going and they should not relent in voting him as the Vanguard’s Sexiest Nollywood Actor.